How has your life changed since starting college?

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

I’ve become more responsible.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

What makes outside showers appealing? Why are they not commonly seen?

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

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There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

What firsthand information do you have on prisoner-on-prisoner sexual abuse/rape?

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

How is sex with a woman for gay men?

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

What do feminists mean when they say they want to ‘normalize’ menstruation and its discussion?

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

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The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

Why have Indian girls almost stopped wearing sarees?

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

Confidence is the key.

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

Has anyone ever made you take off your shirt?

How has your life changed since starting college?

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

What’s a mistake most guys make when trying to get a girlfriend?

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

Study links premature ejaculation to altered brain activity and neurotransmitter imbalances - PsyPost

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

Can you share a lesson that you learned later in life and how it has impacted your current lifestyle, mentality, or attitude?

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Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this

Let’s come to the answer.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

What does it mean when a guy says he's afraid of falling for someone else after going through heartbreaks?

made friends

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

Why did I move on so fast from a relationship that was my whole life and I was so attached, I moved on by 2 months?

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-Hitesha.